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5th Feb 2025

A Simple Meditation for Deep Sleep

Falling asleep is not something you do. It is something you allow. Eight minutes of getting out of the way.

About 8 minutes, mostly tense and release. Only listen where it is safe to sleep.

Toes, calves, thighs, arms, face, then everything at once. Tense and let go. It is the quickest reliable way into sleep there is, and it is nearly all of this episode. Somewhere in there the limbs stop feeling like yours to carry. The body goes first and the mind follows, which is the right way round.

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Transcript
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Welcome to A Simple Meditation for Deep Sleep. I'm Steven Webb.

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Let's begin by settling into this space.

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Feel the comfort of the bed beneath you.

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The gentle weight of your covers.

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And the quiet around you.

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And all just surrendering to this moment.

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And falling asleep is something you allow to happen. It's not something you make happen. It's not something you can

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do.

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You just allow your body to fall asleep in this moment.

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And just become aware of your breath and

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just let your breath go with a little sigh,

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releasing anything you need to sleep.

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Sleep arrives when we let go of this moment

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And when we trust this moment is enough. We just end up falling asleep.

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If thoughts tug you in any way, imagine them just floating past. No

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need to do anything with them. You

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are safe right here. Now,

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just breathing in, calm, breathing out, relax.

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And almost with every breath, breathing in, calm. And

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when you breathe out, relax just the body's just relaxing a little more each time, just one percent or two

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percent more each time. With

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every breath, the body can relax just a little more.

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And bring your attention to your toes and

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let them curl slightly and hold them and then let them release and

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feel them grow warm and loose.

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Now gently tighten your calves as if pressing your feet into the sand and

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hold them. And then let them go.

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And do the same with your thighs, just squeezed lightly and

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then release, sinking deeper. Now

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do the same with your all of your legs, including your hips and your feet and your toes. And now

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just let them go.

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And now we'll do it with the arms and the belly and the chest, just tightening all of it, including

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your hands, and just letting it go in this moment.

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And Now we'll just gently do the neck and the face and just tensing it all up and now just

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letting it go.

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And now we're going to finally do every part of the body, every single muscle you know. And just when

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you're ready, just tense everything up, really hold it tight. And now just let everything go

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And It just floods the body with relaxation and all the chemicals it needs just to relax into this moment

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now. Breathing in calm, breathing out, relax, Breathing

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in peace and quiet.

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And as you're breathing out, just deeper into sleep.

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And just notice how the body feels

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like it's no longer yours to carry.

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Each limb is numb and distance as sleep just wraps around you.

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The body's falling asleep. And

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it's very often the body will fall asleep before the mind. That's okay.

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The legs have already fallen asleep, your

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arms are falling asleep, your hands

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And all just surrendering to this moment.

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And Falling asleep is something you allow to happen. It's not something you make happen. It's not something you can

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do

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you just allow your body to fall asleep in this moment.

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And if your mind starts wandering in the story, just a little gentle smile. Thank you. But we're just here

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peacefully, breathing in calm,

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breathing in surrender,

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breathing out sleep.

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And now it's just time to let your mind follow.

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Thoughts may drift by,

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just like you're dissolving them in water. And the water slowly becoming clearer.

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And just like allowing the mind to go sleep, it's like allowing the body to go sleep. You just allow

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the foot and the leg and the body and the arms, just allow all the parts to go sleep. With

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the mind, you just allow it to fall asleep. And

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if a thought just come up, just ah, there's a thought.

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I'm going to allow that thought to just carry on its way.

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I may have thoughts. I don't have to do anything with those thoughts.

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And with every exhale, let your mind grow quieter, emptier,

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until even the idea of thinking even fades.

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And as you're falling into deep sleep, you feel safe.

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As you're falling deeper into deep sleep, you feel still. Just

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let the silence hold you.

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And with every breath in and every breath out, you're going deeper and

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deeper into sleep.

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There's no words now. There's

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no thoughts now. It's

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just awareness of falling asleep,

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Just awareness of sounds. Awareness

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of here.

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Awareness of peace,

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Awareness of quietness

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In this quietness,

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you sleep.

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About the Podcast

Inner Peace Meditations
Short guided meditations for people who cannot meditate. No jargon, no complicated breathing, no promises. Around fourteen minutes. Always free.
Short guided meditations for people who cannot meditate.

That is not a joke, it is the actual brief. If you have ever tried one of these and spent the whole time thinking about whether you were doing it right, then went back to scrolling, these are for you.

I am Steven Webb. I have ADHD and dyslexia, and my mind has never once gone quiet. I stopped trying to make it. That turned out to be the whole thing.

You do not have to empty your head. You never did. The thoughts are not the problem, your relationship with them is.

Most of these run around fourteen minutes. Morning ones to start the day a bit lighter. Evening ones to let the day settle. Some for anxiety, some for anger, some for the nights when sleep is not happening.

No complicated breathing. No visualisations you cannot hold. No promises about who you will be in thirty days.

Free, and staying free.

Steven Webb has been paralysed from the chest down since 1991. He teaches from the mess, not from the mountaintop.
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